Wedding Planning: The Ultimate Groom’s Guide

Inclusivity note: We believe Love is Love. While this article is written for cishet couples we have another article written for the LGBTQ community here.

Hey Grooms-to-be!
Congratulations on embarking on the thrilling journey of wedding planning! While your leading lady might have been dreaming of this day since she was a little girl, fear not because you’re about to become the superhero of wedding planning. With a dash of style and a sprinkle of fun, let’s dive into the exciting world of making your big day the stuff of legends!

Teamwork Makes the Dream Work

Remember, it’s a partnership, and you’re in this together. Start by sitting down with your fiance and discussing your vision for the big day. What are the must-haves and the oh-so-nice-to-haves? Ensure you’re both on the same page to tackle the planning process as a united front. Create a Pinterest board and add things that you think are cool to it.

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Channel Your Inner James Bond

Planning a wedding is like orchestrating a grand mission; you’re the suave secret agent making it all happen. Get organized – create checklists, spreadsheets, or even a secret agent dossier if that’s your style. This helps you keep track of tasks and adds a touch of mystery and excitement to the planning process!

Be the Rock

Your fiance might be riding the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning. Be her rock, offering support and understanding when decisions seem overwhelming. Surprise her with a random act of kindness or a spontaneous date night to ease the stress.


Grooms, it’s time to bring out your inner style guru! Collaborate on decisions like choosing the perfect suit or tuxedo. Whether you’re going for a classic black tie or a trendy, personalized look, ensure you feel confident and ready to strut down that aisle.

Delegate Like a Boss

You’re not a one-man show, and that’s perfectly okay. Delegate tasks to your groomsmen, friends, or family. Everyone loves being part of a team that will lighten your load and create lasting memories with your closest pals.

Embrace the Fun

Inject some fun into the planning process! Attend cake tastings, dance lessons, and venue visits with enthusiasm. Turn the to-do list into a scavenger hunt or a series of challenges to make the journey as exciting as the destination.

Celebrate the Wins

Every task completed is a reason to celebrate! Whether securing the dream venue or finalizing the menu, take a moment to revel in your achievements. Pop some champagne or share a victory dance – it’s all part of the adventure.

It’s All About the Adventure

Wedding planning is an adventure full of twists, turns, and unexpected surprises. Embrace the journey, make lasting memories, and enjoy the process of creating a day that reflects the unique love story you and your fiance share.

Grooms, you’ve got this! With a touch of style, a pinch of fun, and loads of love, your wedding planning adventure is bound to be legendary. Cheers to you and your soon-to-be spouse – may your wedding start a lifetime filled with joy, laughter, and endless love!